ONLINE LIFE & LOVE COACHING - LOS ANGELES & THE NETHERLANDS
More love is available than you’re currently experiencing.
Most of us weren't taught how to give or receive love. We absorbed it, from imperfect role models, doing their best, in circumstances that weren't always ideal or safe. What you carry isn't a character flaw. It's an intelligent response to real lived experiences. And it can shift. It is never too late to learn how to love yourself, your life, and the people in it.
✦ "Nobody taught us how to love. We absorbed it from imperfect role models"
✦ "These aren't flaws. They're intelligent responses to real experiences"
✦ "The armor that kept you safe then is limiting you now"
✦ "You didn't block love. You learned to protect yourself"
✦ "Nobody taught us how to love. We absorbed it from imperfect role models" ✦ "These aren't flaws. They're intelligent responses to real experiences" ✦ "The armor that kept you safe then is limiting you now" ✦ "You didn't block love. You learned to protect yourself"
ABOUT LENNART
Your guide. Your sparring partner. I’ll swim with you.
That means I'm in the water with you. Not watching from the side, but swimming alongside you, while we figure out how to stay afloat and get to where you want to go. Present, honest, curious and compassionate, even when the journey gets uncomfortable.
Unfortunately we sometimes have to navigate through the dark in order to feel lighter again.
I'm Lennart. A life and love coach based between Los Angeles and Amsterdam, with a Master's in Psychology and over two decades doing this work. I'm also one of the relationship experts on the Dutch version of Married At First Sight, which means I've sat with people in some of the most exposed, unguarded moments a relationship can produce. That changes how you listen.
Think of me as your guide and sparring partner on this journey toward loving yourself, your life and the people in it.
My approach is psychology-based coaching, which means we go looking for the what to do, but not without looking at the why. Because lasting change doesn't come from knowing what to do differently. It comes from understanding why you keep doing what you do. Once that's clear, everything else follows more naturally than you'd expect.
EDUCATION: MSc Psychology
CERTIFICATION: Leadership, Trauma & Emotion Regulation
TV: Married At First Sight NL
BASED IN: Los Ángeles & Netherlands
A DIFFERENT CONVERSATION
Your patterns aren’t problems. They’re protection.
Most dating or relationship advice starts from the assumption that something is wrong with you. It tells you: You're blocking love. You're self-sabotaging. You're not letting people in.
I start somewhere else entirely: The patterns you're carrying made sense when you built them. They kept you safe. They were intelligent responses to real circumstances. The problem isn't that you're broken it's that those same responses are running in a life that is asking for a different approach.
That's not a character flaw to fix. That's old programming to gently update. And that's a very different kind of work.
"You didn't block love. You learned to protect yourself."
"The armor that kept you safe then is limiting you now."
"Your nervous system is running old programming that made perfect sense at the time."
"These aren't flaws. They're intelligent responses to real experiences."
"Nobody taught us how to give or receive love. We absorbed it from imperfect role models."
WHAT WE WORK ON
Two kinds of people
find their way here. Both are in the right place.
Singles who are exhausted from the same patterns showing up in their lives through different people. And couples who love each other but can't seem to find their way back to each other. The details are different. The work has the same depth.
01
Love Coaching
for Singles
You've done the work. You've read the books, you've had the therapy, you know yourself reasonably well. And yet, here you are, watching the same dynamic play out again with someone new. That's not bad luck. That's a pattern, and patterns have roots worth understanding. Together, we find them.
This is for people who are ready to stop performing relationships and start inhabiting them.
02
Relationship Coaching for Couples
You love each other. That's not the question. The question is why the same argument keeps happening, why the distance crept in, why even the good days feel like you're on opposite sides of something invisible. Couples don't fall out of love, they fall out of understanding. That's reversible.
This is for couples who haven't given up, and aren't ready to.
03
Life Coaching
Sometimes the relationship that needs the most attention is the one you have with yourself. Your sense of direction. Your confidence. The way you speak to yourself at 2am. Life coaching is for people who know something needs to shift but haven't been able to articulate exactly what, yet.
We figure it out together.
04
Wellness Retreats
There are things that become clear when you step outside your ordinary life that simply don't surface in a 50-minute session. Our Wellness Retreats create that space: immersive, human, carefully designed for people who take the inner work seriously and want to do it in community.
Upcoming dates available on request.
Real psychology. Not the kind that fits on a fridge magnet.
Relationship expert on Married At First Sight (NL). Working with real couples in real time, on and off camera.
TELEVISION
PRACTICE
Online coaching practice serving clients across Europe and the US, with bases in Los Angeles and Amsterdam.
Master's in Psychology. Certified Leadership, Trauma and Emotion Regulation trainer. The credentials back the instincts.
TRAINING
“More love is available to you than you’re currently experiencing. That’s not a ceiling, it’s a starting point.”
— LENNART KLIPP
IS THIS FOR YOU?
You already know something needs to shift.
You've been in therapy, you've done the journaling, and you still find yourself repeating the same patterns with different people.
You and your partner love each other. The same argument just keeps showing up uninvited.
You're good at life on the outside and quietly exhausted on the inside.
You know, somewhere, that more love is possible for you than you're currently experiencing. You just don't know how to get there.
You want depth, not platitudes. You're done with self-help that makes you feel worse about yourself.
The people I work with aren't in denial. They're self-aware, often well-read, genuinely trying and still stuck. Not because they're not smart enough, or not working hard enough. But because insight alone doesn't update the nervous system. That takes something different.
If you recognize yourself in any of the descriptions to the right, we should probably talk. The first conversation is free, and it's not a sales pitch. It's a real talk to find out if we're a good fit.
LET’S BEGIN
The first conversation is just a conversation.
No scripts, no pressure, no empty promises. Just a real talk to find out where you are, what you're looking for, and whether working together makes sense.
Based in Los Angeles & Amsterdam Online coaching available worldwide