Something needs to shift. You just haven’t named it yet.
LIFE COACHING
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Not every person who comes to me has a dating or relationship problem. Far from it. Some people just know, quietly, persistently, that the life they're living doesn't quite match the one they're capable of. That's enough to start with.
WHO THIS IS FOR
Functioning well
on the outside.
Quietly restless within.
You feel stuck, not dramatically, just persistently. Like you're moving but not quite going anywhere.
You struggle with confidence in ways that surprise you, given what you've already achieved.
You know what you should do but can't seem to make yourself do it consistently.
You're at a crossroads, whether it’s your career, location, relationship, identity, you need to think it through with someone who can hold the complexity.
The way you speak to yourself, particularly when things go wrong, is something you're ready to change.
Life coaching is often the hardest service to explain, because the people who need it most are often the ones who look like they're doing fine. They're managing. They're achieving things. And underneath that, there's a persistent sense that something is off, a direction missing, a confidence that keeps quietly deflating, a version of themselves they haven't managed to reach.
You don't need a crisis to work with me. You need an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to be, and a psychologically grounded way to bridge that gap.
"The relationship that needs the most attention is sometimes the one you have with yourself."
Goal-setting is easy. Understanding why you keep stopping short of them — that's where the real work is. We go there.
Not just goal-setting.
The person behind them.
WHAT WE WORK ON
01
IDENTITY & DIRECTION
Who you are when you're not performing a role. What you actually want, underneath what you think you should want. Getting clear on this changes everything else.
02
SELF-WORTH & CONFIDENCE
Not affirmations. The real work: understanding where your self-concept came from, what it's protecting, and how to relate to yourself with more steadiness and less judgment.
03
PATTERNS & BLOCKS
Procrastination, self-sabotage, perfectionism, these aren't character flaws. They're protective mechanisms. We find the logic beneath them and update it.
04
EMOTIONAL REGULATION
Managing your inner state, especially under stress, in conflict, or when facing uncertainty, is a skill. One that most of us were never directly taught. We build it.
05
RELATIONSHIPS & BOUNDARIES
How you relate to the people around you, professionally, personally, reflects how you relate to yourself. We work on both simultaneously.
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MEANING & FULFILMENT
The harder question underneath the practical ones: what actually matters to you? Not in theory. In practice, in daily life, in the choices you make with your time.
One conversation
at a time. Or an all inclusive package.
HOW IT WORKS
Sessions are one-on-one, 50 minutes, conducted online via video call. We work at whatever pace suits you. The work shapes itself around where you are and what matters most right now. Some people come with a clear goal. Others come with a feeling and we find the goal together.
I work in English and Dutch, with clients across Europe and the US. Time zones are rarely a problem, I keep flexible hours across both LA and Amsterdam.
We start with a free 20-minute intake conversation. No obligation, no pitch. Just an honest look at where you are, what you're working with, and whether working together makes sense.
INVESTMENT
INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS
Pay As You Go
$190
Per 50-minute session
$740
Four prepaid 50-minute sessions
✔️ 50-minute sessions
✔️ Valid for 3 months
✔️ Personalized advice and exercises
RECOMMENDED
12-week Package
$2,180
Twelve 50-minute sessions package
✔️ Twelve 50-minute sessions
✔️ Valid for 3 months
✔️ Personalized advice and exercises
✔️ Unlimited e-mail support between session
All prices exclude VAT where applicable. Package sessions are valid for 3 months. Sliding scale available in exceptional circumstances, reach out and we'll talk.
QUESTIONS
A few things worth saying upfront.
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No. "I know something needs to change but I'm not sure what" is one of the most common starting points. That's fine. The intake conversation usually helps clarify it.
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It's coaching, not therapy. I use psychological frameworks to understand patterns and build new ones. But I don't diagnose, and I don't do personality disorders or clinical work. If that's what you need, I'll tell you honestly and will try to refer you to someone else. -
A good friend listens. A coach listens differently, with training, with method, and without the social dynamics that make honesty complicated in friendships. I'll say things a friend might not, and I'll hold you to things a friend might let go of.
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Absolutely. I work online with clients across Europe, the US, and beyond. All sessions are available in English or Dutch.
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Honestly, it depends. Some people come for a few sessions and leave with exactly what they needed. Others work with me for 6 months or longer. The 12-week package covers most meaningful initial work. After that, we assess together.
Start with a free conversation.
20 minutes. No commitment. If it's not the right fit, I'll tell you and I'll try to point you in a better direction.
Based in Los Angeles & Amsterdam Online coaching available worldwide
Other ways
we can work together.
ALSO AVAILABLE
01
Love Coaching Singles
For people who are ready to stop performing relationships and start inhabiting them.
02
Relationship Coaching Couples
For couples who love each other but can’t seem to find their way back.
03
Wellness retreats
Immersive, in-person, in community, for people who want to go deeper.